If you wait until you’re in bed together, naked and thrusting, one of you is more than likely to get a surprise. Sure, lots of guys are versatile, but if you’ve already had ‘the chat’ you’ll know what to expect when it comes down to it. It’s a bit of a cringe-worthy line, but ‘what are you into?’ usually works. If you’re too anxious your anal sphincter muscle will tighten, and that means pain. When the tip of his cock is inside you, push out your sphincter. Expand and contract your sphincter muscle, and each time you do this, let him enter you a bit more. Put lube on your cock if you’re f**king, and inside your partner’s ass. The spit and shove you might see in porn only really works in porn (or for anal veterans who’ve been taking it for years). Use water-based lube as anything oily can cause a condom to break. Anal sex PositionsĮxperiment with different positions to find which one is most comfortable for you. If you’re new to getting f**ked, you might want to try riding your partner, so you’re in control of how much cock you’re taking at any one time. OUCH! (Steven Depolo)īut with practice, it gets better, and then it’s f**king awesome. Like any set of muscles, the ones in your ass need training.
Keep a few condoms in your wallet, or in the drawer next to your bed.
Keeping them on the bedside table sends a clear message that you’re into safer sex.
